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They think we struggle without male support. Many people come asking how to have sex.

Adilayo and Noora are well known to the Malayalees. Both of them, who are lesbian couples, bought the right to live together by fighting with their families. Now both of them are freely enjoying their life together. Speaking in an interview given to Ginger Media, both of them shared details. Now life is happy. There is work and sometimes outings. When we are together, we like to spend time at home. There is a lot of freedom now that was not available in the past. The fact that our look has changed is an example of that. You can go out whenever you want, no one will stop you or question you, you can wear whatever you like. Adila and Noora started saying that we can be so happy after those events only because we are financially settled.

From the family's point of view, the situation has not changed. They are not to blame, it is not their fault that they did not understand. Their hatred towards us has only increased. That is unlikely to change. Both of them say that if they don't understand, they can at least respect our decision. Today, the society that decided to live together is not the same, times have changed. But Noora says that there is still no major change in people's views. A friend of our gay couple's partner died, yet even the body was not accepted by the family. People's questions, chatter and doubt are still going on. Although there have been minor setbacks.

One does not come directly and speak in such a way as to irritate anyone. But there are many messages in the comment and inbox. I saw someone comment saying that they saw us at Lulu Mall and then walked away in disgust. After all, we haven't done anything disgusting. It seems that's because their mentality is like that. That is not our issue. For many people, the poverty of sex. It can be understood in the comment and inbox. Some will come saying that I will accept both of you. They think we struggle without male support. Many people come asking how to have sex.

Rakesh Sudheesan: Founder/Editor/Journalist at Mixindia.com
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